Advices From One BBW: 5 Don’ts Of Dating

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Dating a big girl isn’t easy. You will always question whether the thing you said was appropriate and tiptoe around her feelings. If you prefer girls with a little more meat on their bones, don’t worry, we can help you. If you are going on a date with that one BBW you like, just relax, take a deep breath and read these tips. Every girl is different, but there are some things you shouldn’t say to any of them, no matter how cool and understanding they are.

Don’t convince her that she is skinny

She has a mirror at home and she knows what size she wears. If you try to convince her that she is skinny, you won’t seem like a gentleman, but rather like a phony who tells girls what they want to hear in order to get them into bed. Don’t play dumb. Avoid the conversation about her weight, but if she initiates it, just tell her that she is beautiful and move on.

Don’t compliment only her face

If you keep telling her that she has gorgeous eyes, lips or hair, she will wonder what is wrong with the rest of her. Keep your compliments vague. For example, tell her that she is beautiful or that she looks great. You can’t swing and miss with that.

Don’t tell her what to eat

If you want to have a romantic date with your girl, don’t mention the size of portion or the calories. Let the girl eat what she wants. If she orders a steak, don’t be a douchebag and order a salad because you are trying to stay fit. Also, don’t complain about your weight, especially if you are thinner that she is.

Don’t recommend her diets

If she wanted to lose weight, she probably would. Maybe you have good intentions, but if you recommend a girl some kind of diet, you are basically calling her fat.

Don’t fetishize

When you are BBW dating, keep in mind that these girls aren’t objects. If you like their curves, that is fine. But if you only want to be with a girl because she is overweight, don’t find your date on BBW dating sites. These girls are searching for love, not creeps who will drool over their thighs.

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