They say that everything is allowed in love and war. Well, we are not here to talk about war, but when it comes to love we don’t agree. If you want to have a successful relationship with a guy, there are some rules that need to be followed. So, if you want to date a cowboy and be seriously involved with your country man, here are some tips which might help you dazzle him.
Have your own life
He likes the real, dynamic you, with your interests and hobbies, so don’t neglect them as soon as you find a boyfriend. If you let your cowboy become a center of your universe, you will probably smother him very soon. Keep in mind that country men are very busy. They have a whole ranch to run, so they don’t need you by their side 24/7. Men are usually attracted to confident and independent women, so don’t get needy. Do your own thing and spend a reasonable amount of time with your new guy. Find time for him, but also for your work, hobbies, family and friends.
Wine and dine
When you are at the beginning of a relationship and you have just started to date your cowboy, control the amount of drinks you have with dinner. Cowboys are gentlemen and they like ladies, so act like one. If you start walking like a Bambi on ice or mumbling your words, he won’t find that sexy at all. He will make sure you get home safely, but the odds are you will never hear from him again.
Give him time
Don’t tell him on your third date that you want a relationship with him. Even if he finds you attractive, funny, smart and sexy, this might scare him off. Take time to get to know each other. This is a very exciting phase so there is no need to rush it. If you put relationship on the table too soon, he will wonder if it is him you want to date, or would you date anyone just so you’re not single any more.
Don’t invite him in
If you want to show him that you are a lady, don’t invite him in after your first date. That will you make you seem easy, and cowboys avoid that kind of girls. A kiss in front of your door is enough.