Transgender Dating 101: What To Expect When Going Out With A Tranny

What To Expect When Going Out

Dating a trans person can be fun and rewarding like any other dating. However, if you think you are ready to date a transgender person, scroll through these tips before you go out with your girl. You may learn something new.

There are some things you must know before you begin transgender dating. You may say something inappropriate that could offend your girl. It is always good to be prepared for a date, so we have written down some tips for you.

Don’t use the term tranny

That is a derogatory term used in porn and it turns transgender women into objects. Avoid this word, or your date might end up offended.

She is not a teacher

Do you have a computer? Do you know how to use it? Then do an online search and find out what you want to know about TS dating. Your date is not a textbook, so don’t treat her like one.

She is not easy

Unfortunately, trans women are presented as easy women who just want to have sex. In real life, don’t expect a that a girl you found through TG personals wants to move straight into the bedroom. It can be after your first, fifth, tenth date or even never. It is up to her to decide. She is not a porn star ready to fulfill your every wish.

Don’t hide her away

If you can have sex with her, you can take her out in public. If you are dating for a while, introduce her to your friends and family. Don’t be that guy who is ashamed of his girl. Don’t try to hide your relationship.

Watch out for the stereotypes

Do you know that all black people aren’t rappers? You do? Ok, than you know not to assume anything based on some trait. The fact is you might be holding stereotypes you didn’t even know you had, especially if you haven’t met a transgender person before. Don’t assume that all transgender women have penises, that they’re all sex workers or criminals, that they envy cisgender women or that they want to look stereotypically feminine. When you are on a date don’t mention any of these. Get to know your girl for who she is.

Don’t mention sex on the first date

Would you do it if you were on a date with a cis woman? We didn’t think so. So don’t talk about it on this one either. Not all transgender people are comfortable with their bodies, so they may not be comfortable discussing sex. Wait for her to bring it up first.

Talk about sex before you go to the bedroom

Open communication is important in any sexual relationship, not just transgender one. Before you sleep with her, ask her what she’s comfortable with.

Support her

If you’re in a relationship with a transgender woman for a long period of time, especially a woman at the beginning of her transition, then be prepared for a lot of changes. That period can be really difficult, emotionally and physically and financially. Support her through those times like a real gentleman.

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